Pantyhose Fetish

Ladies, Gentlemen and Pantyhose Fetish
There are differences in the way ladies and gentlemen develop and express their pantyhose fetish. Both in regards to the genetic of the sexes, as well as socio-cultural perception of what is considered normal and fashionable. Lets take a look at these...

Generally speaking there are more men with a pantyhose fetish than there are women with a pantyhose fetish. The intensity of the fetish is generally also higher in men than in women. According to some theories this has to do with the genetics of sexual gender and how these affect perception during childhood. Whatever the explanation males seem to be more prone to develop a fetish of any kind.

For the pantyhose fetishist pantyhose is a sexually charged garment and is a central part in sexual play. The intensity of the fetish can be measured by how much the pantyhose itself is sexually stimulating and how much the person likes to include pantyhose into their sexual activity. One can say it starts with a liking for pantyhose, it is attractive, but this is not a really a fetish. We can begin to talk of a mild pantyhose fetish when there is a sexual association to pantyhose, the person likes to include pantyhose in their sexual activity episodically, at least in foreplay. A strong pantyhose fetish, is when the individual has an intense fascination with pantyhose and derives immense pleasure with it, it plays a central part in their sexual fantasies and becomes an integrated part of their sex life.

Men's pantyhose fetish usually develops before puberty through events involving someone wearing pantyhose and associations of an emotional, sensual or sexual nature. This develops to an attraction to the pantyhose item itself and a preference for pantyhosed women. Latter in life pantyhose fetishists try to find a partner that enjoys his fetish or at least accepts it.

Women seem to develop their fetish at a latter age then men, often around puberty. They may have a special attraction to pantyhose and love to wear pantyhose, however since pantyhose is perceived as a normal garment for women, few make the connection of pantyhose and sex after latter in life.

Lovely Ladies in Pantyhose and Pantyhose Loving Ladies
Most women just use pantyhose as part of formal dressing or so their bare legs are not exposed. Pantyhose gives warmth in cold days, prevents blisters when wearing shoes and gives a better look to the naked legs, especially if they have a poor suntan. Some women just wear pantyhose to look more elegant and classy at their job, wearing it together with skirt or dress and high-heels.

Other women find that pantyhose gives a boost to their self esteem, making them feel more feminine and sexy, and they dress up to impress other women as much as men. They may find the texture and soft silky feeling on the skin very appealing, but still pantyhose can be a normal clothing item for women, without any sexual association.

Usually the fetish anchers when she begins to get attention in her hose and notices that pantyhose makes some guys really hot. Pantyhose then becomes sexually potent, and she begins to think of it as a more seductive and sensual part of her wardrobe. The love for pantyhose builds up as she experiments having erotic pleasure in them wiles masturbating, forplaying, or during sexual intercourse itself.

Gentlemen that like to wear pantyhose
Some men pantyhose fetishists like to wear pantyhose themselves. Men that like to wear pantyhose can be misunderstood and labeled as abnormal, gay or exhibitionist - but the truth is that most pantyhose fetishists are just heterosexual men with a love for pantyhose. The fear of being negatively labeled creates a situation where many men prefer to remain anonymous in the scene.

Pantyhose has since its invention been labeled a feminine clothing item, this is why men wearing pantyhose are sometimes considered "abnormal", unless the men are athletes, gymnasts, popstars or dancers, in which case it is accepted and "normal". But what is considered "normal" clothing for genders has changed over the centuries. For centuries men wore skirts and pantyhose-like garments, this norm changed over time. Just this century there have been an incredible amount of changes in fashion, today torned cloth, tatoos, piercings and colored hair are normal and fashionable - some years back this would be perceived as strange, special and not normal.

Before the mid 60s women in executive looks, wearing trousers, suit and tie, were totally unimaginable, and where labeled as "abnormal". With the emancipation of the women, women demanded not only equal social rights but also the right to wear men clothes, especially trousers. Today women can wear all clothes that where originally made for men, it has become part of what is "normal". But, why should it be only a women that have the right to wear all type of clothes? Why should pantyhose not be a garment for both sexes?

Things are getting better for men that like wearing pantyhose, today you can buy pantyhose specially made for men, Wolford actually produces a range of pantyhose for men. However change is slow, our society tends to ostracize the different, if you don't fit the mold, you're weird and dangerous, this is why so many remain anonymous in the pantyhose fetish community. There is a lack of understanding of what is done and why, and a lack of respect for what is different. Why shouldn't pantyhose be used without regard to the gender of those who use it.

Ladies and Gentlemen, each their dance
Man and women get aroused and stimulated differently. Males are more visual whiles females are more dependent on feelings for erotic excitation. Male pantyhose fetishists find women clothed in pantyhose to be an erotic pleasure, and particularly arousing when they see them in sexy postures and teasing leg movements like f.ex. when putting on or taking of the hose and shoe dangling, movements that strongly bring the focus on the hosed legs and feet.

Women are aroused by the sensual feel of the stretchy clingy fabric as she moves and how it makes her feel more feminine and sexy, she likes being touched. Males often prefer footjobs and legjobs over oral sex. Wiles most women prefer her thighs being caressed and her pussy stimulated and licked.

A hot pantyhose evening
Understanding of genders nature it good for our sexual and love life. Here is a tip for men "women's big turn on, is contact, variation and expectancy of the sexual moment to come". In sexual experience man get turned on pretty fast, whiles women need more time to get tuned in. Man can ease the woman's process by increasing her sexual desire during the day. It takes man a moment to get turned on for sex, women take longer before they are in the place where orgasm is possible for them.

Expectancy of the sensual moment to come is a great turn on for the woman. If you like to have great sexual evening, throughout the day create short intimate moments, need to be no longer than 3 minutes, and begin to turn her on. Tell her hot she looks and how she turns you on, make good eye contact, kiss her, caress her, talk sweet words, compliment her. Tell her how hot she looks in pantyhose. Send her an SMS, a phone call or a note. When evening comes you will already have done half the work of turning her on.

If you like to get her even more ready for this pleasurable evening, help her with her activities, clean up, let her release the stress of the day by listening to her, eat diner with candles, dance together, give her a footmassage. She will be totally yours!

"He gave her warm good morning kiss, send her some sexy SMSs during the day and a couple of sweet teasing words on the phone. She had been fantasizing about him all day, she prepared for the evening getting attractive and wearing a pair of tan pantyhose. Now she was sitting at the couch drinking some tee. As he came in, he almost stumbled over, WOW! ... Would you like some tee darling? she said. His eyes surprised and delighted, Umm, Yes, he mumbled ..." - The stage was set!"

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